Am I the only one who thought that our parents had it all figured out when I was a child? Sure, I saw my mom struggle from time to time, but that’s not what I mean. I thought that adults knew everything… Like, everything!
There I was, ten years old in the back seat of my mom’s red Thunderchicken (more commonly known as a Ford Thunderbird) asking my mom how old she was. Thirty six was SO OLD. We had talked about what we wanted to be when we grew up in school that day. I asked her what she wanted to be when she grew up, and then I started giggling. Silly me, she already knew! She was a nurse. I would always ask her off the wall questions trying to trick her, but somehow she always knew the answer. Now I realize the questions weren’t so hard.
I remember being at my dad’s house trying to trick him, too. I had written some math problems on a piece of paper for him. I’m pretty sure I was like eight years old. Bwahahahhahahahaa! I was shocked that he had gotten them right. He was a good sport about it. Thanks, Dad! I love you!
~~~~FAST FORWARD JUST A few YEARS~~~~
The other day my son asked me about why the grass is green. We had a conversation about chlorophyll and all that goodness, again 🙂 He has asks me some crazzzyyyy questions though, which begs the question HOW IN THE HELL DID OUR PARENTS DO IT WITHOUT GOOGLE? Oh, I’ll tell you how. They made up stories. I was convinced that the grass was green because gnomes came out every night and painted it green. Hey, Mom, You got that one WrOnG! Thanks, mom! Just kidding, I love you!
Now that we got that out of the way I can get back to my point of this post. I guess I’m just now figuring out that there is no magical ‘genius fairy’ that sprinkles smarty pants dust on us when we become parents! There is no fairy…. We have to figure this parenting and adulting thing out ourselves, folks. Sorry I have to be the one to burst that bubble for you! Don’t fret, though. With that bad news comes some good news. Great news! We get to figure things out for ourselves. We get to read books (or the internet) and learn a few bizarre facts to impress our five-year old kids. haha! Not only that, we get to decide how to raise our kids. There are lots of subjects I could go in to here, given our current events, but I won’t…. I just won’t.
We teach our kids to share, say Sir and Ma’am/Please and Thank you, and all that good stuff. My one wish is that we could, as a society, focus on the ‘Golden rule.’
~Treat others the way you want to be treated~
I really don’t understand what’s so hard about that. I guess you can teach general manners, but you can’t teach a heart to care. Maybe that’s not even our problem! As adults so many have had to develop thick skin so a hard heart is developed along with it. How do we teach our kids to develop that thick skin and keep a soft and open heart? I suppose that we should teach them about the armor of God instead of that thick skin!
Ephesians 6:11-18(NIV)
11 Put on the full armor of God, so that you can take your stand against the devil’s schemes. 12 For our struggle is not against flesh and blood,but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the powers of this dark world and against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly realms.13 Therefore put on the full armor of God, so that when the day of evil comes, you may be able to stand your ground, and after you have done everything, to stand. 14 Stand firm then, with the belt of truth buckled around your waist, with the breastplate of righteousness in place, 15 and with your feet fitted with the readiness that comes from the gospel of peace. 16 In addition to all this, take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming arrows of the evil one. 17 Take the helmet of salvation and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God.18 And pray in the Spirit on all occasions with all kinds of prayers and requests. With this in mind, be alert and always keep on praying for all the Lord’s people.
I didn’t know exactly where I was going with this post when I started, but I think I got what I needed from my writing tonight. I hope you did too! Drop a comment, and let me know what you think 🙂
But…. God, if you’re reading this could I have just a TINY sprinkle of that smarty pants dust?